[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/vychova-deti-jaky-styl-vychovy-volime-jdeme-na-to-dobre\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/vychova-deti-jaky-styl-vychovy-volime-jdeme-na-to-dobre\/","headline":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed, jak\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy vol\u00edme? Jdeme na to dob\u0159e?!","name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed, jak\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy vol\u00edme? Jdeme na to dob\u0159e?!","description":"U v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed se zapot\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d. N\u011bkdy je to s d\u011btmi jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed, jin\u00e9 dny si trh\u00e1me vlasy. P\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9m konfliktu s d\u00edt\u011btem p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme nad t\u00edm, kde jsme ud\u011blali chybu. Pro\u010d na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed, neposlouch\u00e1 a d\u00edt\u011b od kamar\u00e1dky je jednozna\u010dn\u00fd opak? Neust\u00e1le n\u00e1s t\u00ed\u017e\u00ed my\u0161lenky, \u017ee nejsp\u00ed\u0161 nejsme dobr\u00fdmi rodi\u010di. Porovn\u00e1v\u00e1me se s jin\u00fdmi […]","datePublished":"2021-11-19","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/04053961f5a3d2af1f56d865c7fc774bb6a80b9754b2f4c57fa4f8cefa253bd4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/04053961f5a3d2af1f56d865c7fc774bb6a80b9754b2f4c57fa4f8cefa253bd4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kruhzitko.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/dna-2566265_960_720.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/dna-2566265_960_720.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/vychova-deti-jaky-styl-vychovy-volime-jdeme-na-to-dobre\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":857,"articleBody":"U v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed se zapot\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d. N\u011bkdy je to s d\u011btmi jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed, jin\u00e9 dny si trh\u00e1me vlasy. P\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9m konfliktu s d\u00edt\u011btem p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme nad t\u00edm, kde jsme ud\u011blali chybu. Pro\u010d na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b zlob\u00ed, neposlouch\u00e1 a d\u00edt\u011b od kamar\u00e1dky je jednozna\u010dn\u00fd opak? Neust\u00e1le n\u00e1s t\u00ed\u017e\u00ed my\u0161lenky, \u017ee nejsp\u00ed\u0161 nejsme dobr\u00fdmi rodi\u010di. Porovn\u00e1v\u00e1me se s jin\u00fdmi rodinami, kter\u00e9 to nemaj\u00ed tak divok\u00e9. Kde d\u011bl\u00e1me chybu? Pro\u010d m\u00e1me takov\u00e9 neklidn\u00e9, aktivn\u00ed a \u010dertovsk\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b? Ot\u00e1zek, kter\u00e9 si pokl\u00e1daj\u00ed ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00ed rodi\u010de je tolik, \u017ee si v\u0161echny nedok\u00e1\u017eeme vybavit. Jednozna\u010dn\u011b by si ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d m\u011bl uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je n\u00e1\u0161 obraz. To co d\u011bl\u00e1me my, d\u011bl\u00e1 i on\/ona. I to jak se k d\u00edt\u011bti chov\u00e1me, obrac\u00ed se proti n\u00e1m. Mo\u017en\u00e1 pak dojde k uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee bychom m\u011bli n\u011bco zm\u011bnit. Kolikr\u00e1t si nep\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00edme na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je velk\u00fdm vlivem na na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b.D\u011bti jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ny v r\u016fzn\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch, s r\u016fzn\u00fdm z\u00e1zem\u00edm a s rozd\u00edlnou v\u00fdchovou. Jedni rodi\u010de vol\u00ed voln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchovu, jin\u00ed tu p\u0159\u00edsnou. Dal\u0161\u00ed skupina rodi\u010d\u016f vol\u00ed v\u00fdchovu formou domlouv\u00e1n\u00ed. A tak\u00e9 rodi\u010de, kter\u00e9 jev\u00ed nez\u00e1jem o v\u00fdchovu d\u00edt\u011bte.Mezi nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u011bc pat\u0159\u00ed, aby d\u00edt\u011b m\u011blo v\u00fdchovu, ve kter\u00e9 budou nastaven\u00fd jasn\u00e1 pravidla, hranice. Touto v\u00fdchovou si d\u00edt\u011b buduje zdrav\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. U\u010d\u00ed se odpov\u011bdnosti za svoje chov\u00e1n\u00ed, soci\u00e1ln\u00ed odpov\u011bdnosti, nez\u00e1vislosti a sv\u011bdomitosti.\u00a0RADY, KTER\u00c9 JSOU K ZAMY\u0160LEN\u00cd\u00b0\u00a0Rodi\u010d by m\u011bl b\u00fdt d\u016fsledn\u00fd a stanovit mantinely\u00b0\u00a0V\u011bnujte dostatek \u010dasu d\u00edt\u011bti\u00b0\u00a0Zapl\u0148te d\u00edt\u011bti den p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi aktivitami, ale s m\u00edrou\u00b0 Dop\u0159ejte d\u00edt\u011bti jeho klidu v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 miluje, pro svoji realizaci\u00b0 D\u00edt\u011b ve\u010fte k samostatnosti\u00b0 Uve\u010fte svoje d\u00edt\u011b do kolektivu, klidn\u011b i formou nav\u0161t\u011bvov\u00e1n\u00ed\u00b0 Pro ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b jsou t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 za\u010d\u00e1tky u\u010den\u00ed, sna\u017ete se mu to zjednodu\u0161it\u00b0 U\u010dte d\u00edt\u011b\u00a0co nejd\u0159\u00edve hygienick\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky a z\u00e1kladn\u00ed etiketu\u00b0 Bu\u010fte sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159\u00edkladem\u00b0 P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte o sv\u00e9m d\u00edt\u011bti, proto\u017ee tohle je nadm\u00edru kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9JAK\u00c9 DRUHY V\u00ddCHOVY M\u00c1ME, A JAK\u00dd MAJ\u00cd DOPAD NA D\u00cdT\u011aAUTORITATIVN\u00cd V\u00ddCHOVAPro tuto v\u00fdchovu je charakteristick\u00e1 pevn\u00fdm veden\u00edm, otev\u0159enost, pru\u017enost, d\u016fslednost, spolupr\u00e1ce a otev\u0159en\u00e1 komunikace. Podporuje autoritu zdrav\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy. Pokud bude d\u00edt\u011b vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no touhle metodou, m\u00e1me vyhr\u00e1no. D\u00edt\u011b bude p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9, nez\u00e1visl\u00e9, spolupracuj\u00edc\u00ed a bude usilovat o nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdkon.AUTOKRATICK\u00c1 V\u00ddCHOVAV\u00fdchova je zalo\u017eena pouze na z\u00e1kazech a p\u0159\u00edkazech. Neust\u00e1le je d\u00edt\u011b rodi\u010dem usm\u011br\u0148ov\u00e1no doprov\u00e1zeno tlakem od rodi\u010de. Nebere ohledy na pot\u0159eby d\u00edt\u011bte a je neust\u00e1le negativn\u011b hodnoceno. D\u00edt\u011b nem\u00e1 prostor pro svoji tvo\u0159ivost a aktivn\u00ed rozv\u00edjen\u00ed. Mezi d\u00edt\u011btem a rodi\u010dem je chladn\u00fd vztah. Dopad na d\u00edt\u011b to m\u00e1 takov\u00fd, \u017ee je nesamostatn\u00fd, z\u00e1visl\u00e9, nesna\u017eiv\u00e9, ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 a uzav\u0159en\u00e9. U chlapc\u016f je dal\u0161\u00edm projevem agresivita.VOLN\u00c1, SHOV\u00cdVAV\u00c1 V\u00ddCHOVASiln\u00e1 emo\u010dn\u00ed podpora ze strany rodi\u010d\u016f. D\u00edt\u011b nem\u00e1 nastavena \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 pravidla. Nulov\u00e1 nebo n\u00edzk\u00e1 m\u00edra po\u017eadavk\u016f. D\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed nijak omezov\u00e1no. D\u00edt\u011bti nejsou stanoveny hranice ani tehdy, kdy je t\u0159eba zakro\u010dit nebo usm\u011brnit. V\u00fdsledkem t\u00e9to v\u00fdchovy je, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b nespolehliv\u00e9, nezral\u00e9, d\u011bl\u00e1 si co chce, citov\u011b \u010dasto rozlad\u011bn\u00fd.V\u00ddCHOVA, KTER\u00c1 JE ZANEDBAN\u00c1 RODI\u010cIV\u00fdchova, NEv\u00fdchovou. Rodi\u010de se nezaj\u00edm\u00e1 o d\u00edt\u011b a jeho rozvoj. Vztah rodi\u010d\u016f k d\u00edt\u011bti je bez citov\u00fdch projev\u016f. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch rodin je dokonce d\u00edt\u011b odm\u00edt\u00e1no. Negativn\u00ed a lhostejn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup rodi\u010de k d\u00edt\u011bti. Chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte je zna\u010dn\u011b viditeln\u00e9. Je sta\u017een\u00e9 do sebe, nem\u00e1 dostatek sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, nesm\u011bl\u00e9, citov\u011b zraniteln\u00e9 a n\u00e1ladov\u00e9.VID\u00cdTE SE V N\u011aJAK\u00c9 Z T\u011aCHTO VARIANT V\u00ddCHOVY? JAK VYCHOV\u00c1V\u00c1TE D\u011aTI VY?To jak p\u0159istupujeme k v\u00fdchov\u011b, takov\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b budeme m\u00edt. Je na na\u0161em uv\u00e1\u017een\u00ed, jakou v\u00fdchovu zvol\u00edme. Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b, pokud dojdete k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1te n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b, nikdy nen\u00ed pozd\u011b n\u00e1pravy. V\u0161ichni chceme p\u0159ece vychov\u00e1vat d\u00edt\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Ne v\u017edy se n\u00e1m to da\u0159\u00ed, ale m\u016f\u017eeme to zm\u011bnit.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed, jak\u00fd styl v\u00fdchovy vol\u00edme? Jdeme na to dob\u0159e?!","item":"https:\/\/www.kruhzitko.cz\/vychova-deti-jaky-styl-vychovy-volime-jdeme-na-to-dobre\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]